Elaine….

On March 11 in 2011 I said goodbye to a very special lady, Elaine McInchak. She fought MS with grace. She was always doing for others. She came and took me out to lunch after one of my ankle surgeries. She could hardly walk herself but that didn’t stop her. Her husband Bob took such good care of her. She touched many lives with her generous spirit. She was a shining light. I miss talking to you Elaine but I think of you often. Thanks for being my friend….RIH

I was so….

humbled by the many birthday wishes I got for my un birthday. I still miss the silly card I always got from Troy. You know me and him were different in so many ways. But we didn’t care. We didn’t try to change each other, we accepted each other just the way we were. Don’t ever let someone try to change you. If someone doesn’t want you in their life unless you change, don’t do it. Narcissists try to manipulate and change people into what they want them to be. Be yourself don’t let them tell you what to think or do. People should love you just the way you are. Don’t let them make you think that you are a bad person just because you think or believe differently. Just keep being you…..❤️

Thirty years….

ago I celebrated my first birthday here in Texas. There was a 29th that year and my mom flew here. It seems like it was so long ago, I guess it was. My life has changed so much since that time. You can never know what will happen in your life. I look back and think about how much Troy and I went through during our time together. He went through so much with his parents being ill. We saw a lot of changes in our life, some good and some bad. Makes for a lot of memories that I wouldn’t trade for anything. See you on the flip side Troy…..thanks for the memories. Treasure your loved ones they are only here for a short time….

One of Troy’s….

childhood friends passed away this week. I remember Troy’s stories of playing with David, Bobby and Steve. They were brothers and he lived around the corner from them. It was good that he had friends to play with in Mechanicsburg. When he worked at the bakery, two of them were working there. David and Steve have both passed away. Sending many prayers to Bobby…..